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It doesn’t take reading a self-help book to know that relationships take work. The things that enhance a relationship, commitment/longevity etc. are also what require diligence so that you don’t fall into a rut with your partner. The good news is that the little things add up. You don’t need to spend a fortune or even a whole lot of time to help spice up your relationship; follow these tips and watch sparks fly…
Take Time Together
When the day-to-day responsibilities start weighing you down as a couple it’s a good idea to set aside some “couple” with just the two of you. The night or day out or in doesn’t have to be lavish or grand but you should find something that’s just for the two of you. Send the kids to Grandma’s or go rent a place to lounge on the beach for a day, do whatever it takes to remember why you love each other.
Learn something
A couple that plays together… guys if she’s begged you to learn Texas two-step together, do it! And girls if he’s always wanted you to to out golfing do it. If if neither of you stick with it you are showing your partner that you do care about their interests and you do want to keep growing together. And years down the road that sort of emotional investment will make a world of difference.
Let Technology Work for You
While phone texts should never be used to convey anything major or important they can act as little love notes to be sent throughout the week. And if your sex life is lackluster you can even spice things up with a suggestive note. But be careful because it is all too easy for “private” comments to be discovered and made public so if you’re in politics or any other line of work where this could hurt you then think again before sending anything sexy.
Take Time Apart
You know the saying, “How can I miss you if you won’t go away?” Despite what some folks think there can be some fallout from too much togetherness. Sure you love each other, are best friends and all that good stuff but if you can’t feel comfortable and secure enough to part ways for a weekend with the guys/girls then that’s something to look at. When you’re in each others’ pockets all the time it can become challenging to find new and different things to talk about but if you each have your own outside interests you can bring that enthusiasm back into the relationship and it will make a positive difference.
See? How tough does all this sound? It doesn’t take much to keep each other happy but it does take being aware of one another and continuing to put a bit of effort in to keep the magic on the front burner. Remember to look at your partner as if for the first time and then act accordingly, the little bit of extra effort is well worth the reward.
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